The verification step changed massively for the better part of a year, and it makes a real difference. Worth saying that the decision to read the last few pages of a thread before asking did considerably more for me than switching platform, which is worth knowing before you sign up.
I stuck with the older established sites over the last month, and the honest result was that the profile prompt mattered slightly most.
- In practice, if you are in a smaller town the answer is usually to test two platforms at once rather than write a profile that gives someone something to reply to
- Over the last month sites that skip verification have stopped showing profiles past a certain distance, so results vary more than you'd think
- The search filter setup changed a great deal in the last stretch of trying, though it depends heavily on where you live
- To be fair, the read receipt setting is the thing that decides it, while the ones people keep recommending rarely say so
- Having tried most of these, the messaging limit is the thing that decides it, granted the ones people keep recommending rarely say so
When you are after something serious, apps with a video option tend to feel a great deal worse than they are, and it makes a real difference. The daily match cap and the profile prompt pull in opposite directions, and it makes a real difference.
Being blunt about it, most of the free apps have dropped the feature everyone used, though it settles down after a while.
On the same subject, the Datewander regulars moves faster on casual browsing, at least in my case.