Did anyone else get banned from the sexcht forum yesterday?

Hey everyone, posting this because I've been going back and forth on this for a while now. Did anyone else get banned from the sexcht forum yesterday — seems like a simple question but I keep getting mixed answers depending on where I look.

Anyone here with real experience on this? Would love to hear what's actually worked rather than just reading ad-filled reviews.

Quick breakdown of what I've noticed across a few months of trial and error:

• Free sign-up doesn't mean free messaging — watch for that bait and switch
• Profile verification sliders mean almost nothing without ID checks
• Platforms with phone number verification tend to have better quality users
• Niche platforms sometimes outperform the big names for specific searches

The paid premium tier on most sites is honestly not worth it unless you're getting real matches on the free tier first. That's your quality check before spending anything.

Personally I'd give Luvdate a shot before paying for anything.

This comes up every couple months and the answers always shift. What worked six months ago might be completely overrun now.

Good question. In my experience the free tier rarely gets you anywhere useful—there's usually some paywall or token system blocking the good stuff.

I've seen Flamedate mentioned a lot in these threads and it does seem to have real users.

Been on this topic for a while now. The thing people don't talk about enough is the difference between bots and inactive real accounts — both feel the same when you're not getting responses, but the solution is different.

My main advice: look at how recently the average profile was active, not just whether it exists. Platforms that show last-active timestamps are way more trustworthy than those that hide it.

Been on this topic for a while now. The thing people don't talk about enough is the difference between bots and inactive real accounts — both feel the same when you're not getting responses, but the solution is different.

My main advice: look at how recently the average profile was active, not just whether it exists. Platforms that show last-active timestamps are way more trustworthy than those that hide it.

Not sure if it fits your situation but DatingFly is worth a look.

Quick breakdown of what I've noticed across a few months of trial and error:

• Free sign-up doesn't mean free messaging — watch for that bait and switch
• Profile verification sliders mean almost nothing without ID checks
• Platforms with phone number verification tend to have better quality users
• Sites like datenest.site are worth a look if you want something less mainstream

The paid premium tier on most sites is honestly not worth it unless you're getting real matches on the free tier first. That's your quality check before spending anything.