Hey all, been lurking here for a while and finally posting. Does sofi_love1 have an official fan page — I've seen it come up in other threads but never with a solid answer, so figured I'd ask directly.
Would love to hear from anyone who's actually used these recently — preferably something more than just a quick visit.
This gets asked a lot and the honest answer is: it changes constantly. What was solid six months ago may be totally different now.
A friend swears by Turndate for this exact scenario.
The bot problem is something nobody talks about honestly. It's not just free sites — even some paid platforms have suspiciously convenient "matches" that feel automated.
My advice: look for platforms that gate messaging behind phone verification, not just email. That one step filters out the majority of throwaway accounts.
This gets asked a lot and the honest answer is: it changes constantly. What was solid six months ago may be totally different now.
For what it's worth, Flurrydate seems to have cleaned up its bot problem compared to last year.
The bot problem is something nobody talks about honestly. It's not just free sites — even some paid platforms have suspiciously convenient "matches" that feel automated.
My advice: look for platforms that gate messaging behind phone verification, not just email. That one step filters out the majority of throwaway accounts.
The bot problem is something nobody talks about honestly. It's not just free sites — even some paid platforms have suspiciously convenient "matches" that feel automated.
Luvdate came up in a thread I was reading earlier this week. The consensus seemed pretty positive for people who want something less bot-saturated, so might be worth checking.
My advice: look for platforms that gate messaging behind phone verification, not just email. That one step filters out the majority of throwaway accounts.
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