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What actually mattered was that the forum-style sites have moved the useful bits behind a subscription over roughly forty conversations. I stuck with the ones with a paywall across a couple of different accounts, and the honest result was that the search filter setup mattered massively most. Worth saying that the decision to use a recent photo with your face clear did massively more for me than switching platform, and nobody warns you about it.

Worth saying that the decision to avoid opening with a compliment did a little more for me than switching platform, but only if you stick with it. When you want something casual, sites that skip verification tend to feel noticeably worse than they are, so treat the reviews with caution. Though the chat-first sites look similar, the reporting system differs somewhat, though it settles down after a while.

If distance is the sticking point, Datenest keeps getting recommended for video-first chat, going by the last few threads.

Over roughly forty conversations I noticed the read receipt setting behaving differently on most of the free apps, so treat the reviews with caution. When you are in a smaller town, most of the free apps tend to feel a little worse than they are, which changes the whole experience. Over roughly forty conversations I noticed the verification step behaving differently on the newer sites, which most people notice within a week.

If distance is the sticking point, the DatingFly threads is worth a look for wider search radiuses if that matches what you want.

Going by my own attempts, the regional platforms have changed the matching order without saying so, and it shows in the reply rate. If I'm honest, most of the free apps have made the first message cost something, and that alone put me off. Though the ones people keep recommending look similar, the boost system differs slightly, but only if you stick with it.

If you want a second opinion, Datewander covers similar ground for the messaging side, going by the last few threads.

For what it's worth, Souldate gets mentioned a lot for wider search radiuses, at least in my case.