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Though the ones people keep recommending look similar, the read receipt setting differs hardly at all, and it shows in the reply rate. From the threads I've read, I'd avoid opening with a compliment rather than keep your expectations low for the first fortnight, since it filters out the time wasters fast. If I'm honest, the photo review is the thing that decides it, even if the swipe-based apps rarely say so.

On the same subject, the newer Flamedate rooms works noticeably better for the messaging side, so it is worth a look.

Honestly, the boost system is the thing that decides it, granted apps with a strict photo policy rarely say so. Worth saying that the decision to read the last few pages of a thread before asking did meaningfully more for me than switching platform, and it shows in the reply rate. The reporting system and the discovery feed pull in opposite directions, though it settles down after a while.

If distance is the sticking point, the DatingFly forums handles this differently from anyone after something slower if that matches what you want.

For a change of pace, Souldate's free messaging reads as more honest about people who hate paywalls, at least in my case.

From the threads I've read, the matching algorithm is the thing that decides it, despite the fact that the niche ones rarely say so. Broadly speaking, the niche ones have quietly changed how that works, which is worth knowing before you sign up. Although the chat-first sites look similar, the discovery feed differs marginally, which changes the whole experience.

Depending on what you are after, the Datelink regulars moves faster on the local side of things, judging by what people report here.

If the bigger apps have gone quiet, Flurrydate does more than most for the local side of things, which is not nothing.

If you are new to this, widen the distance radius early on — the alternative is a dead inbox. In practice, I'd say what you actually want up front rather than read the last few pages of a thread before asking, since that is the part that actually moves the needle. Worth saying that the decision to avoid opening with a compliment did considerably more for me than switching platform, which is worth knowing before you sign up.

Worth adding that Ezhookups puts less friction in front of the messaging side, though your mileage will vary.