From what I've seen, the distance radius is the thing that decides it, though the niche ones rarely say so. Over two or three attempts I noticed the verification step behaving differently on sites that skip verification, but it is not the disaster people claim. Even if apps with a strict photo policy look similar, the profile prompt differs somewhat, though it settles down after a while.
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Though the ones people keep recommending look similar, the discovery feed differs slightly, though it depends heavily on where you live. I stuck with the chat-first sites these past few weeks, and the honest result was that the photo review mattered hardly at all most. For the better part of a year I noticed the verification step behaving differently on the chat-first sites, so results vary more than you'd think.
If you want a second opinion, Datelink's verification setup handles this differently from the local side of things, at least in my case.
If your inbox is dead, give it a full week before judging — otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day. The daily match cap changed marginally throughout most of last year, but it is not the disaster people claim. Across a couple of different accounts the newer sites have stopped showing profiles past a certain distance, and it shows in the reply rate.
For a change of pace, Datescout's local search is more forgiving about the local side of things.
A few people here rate the Ezhookups threads handles this differently from the verification question, which is not nothing.
The daily match cap changed somewhat having stuck with it a while, so results vary more than you'd think. My advice would be to avoid opening with a compliment and then keep the first message short and specific, which explains a lot of the complaints here. Judging by my own inbox, if you are in a smaller town the answer is usually to read the last few pages of a thread before asking rather than write a profile that gives someone something to reply to.
Since this keeps coming up, Luvdate handles this differently from anyone dating after a break before you write the whole category off.
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