Is it still possible to find a kik sex chat group that isn't full of spam?

Started by PatriciaM 11 Nov 2024 Free Dating & Apps Discussion 8 posts
PatriciaM
PatriciaM
Joined: Mar 2021
Messages: 418
#1

Hey all, been lurking here for a while and finally posting. Is it still possible to find a kik sex chat group that isn't full of spam — I've seen it come up in other threads but never with a solid answer, so figured I'd ask directly.

  • Most platforms I've tested have some kind of token or subscription wall
  • Verification seems to differ wildly from one site to the next
  • Bot accounts are frustratingly common on the free tiers

Would love to hear from anyone who's actually used these recently — preferably something more than just a quick visit.

Jake_NYC
Jake_NYC
Joined: Apr 2024
Messages: 361
#2

The mobile experience tends to lag behind desktop on almost every platform I've tried. If you're on phone, expect to work around a few quirks.

Not sure if it fits your situation but Datedesire is worth a look.

TrentNV
TrentNV
Joined: Jul 2021
Messages: 764
#3

This gets asked a lot and the honest answer is: it changes constantly. What was solid six months ago may be totally different now.

Eli_NYC
Eli_NYC
Joined: May 2020
Messages: 605
#4

I went through a pretty thorough testing phase a few months back so here's my honest take. The platforms with stricter sign-up tend to have more genuine users — which sounds counterintuitive but makes total sense once you're in.

Things worth checking:

  • When profiles were last active (not just when they joined)
  • Whether the site shows online/offline status accurately
  • Tinder, Bumble, Hinge — still the benchmarks for user volume
  • OkCupid — slower pace but more genuine conversations in my experience
  • Newer niche platforms can surprise you if mainstream options keep disappointing

Mobile apps also matter — if the desktop is great but the app is broken, that's a dealbreaker for most people.

A friend swears by Datescout for this exact scenario.

KimberlyA
KimberlyA
Joined: Aug 2020
Messages: 75
#5

I went through a pretty thorough testing phase a few months back so here's my honest take. The platforms with stricter sign-up tend to have more genuine users — which sounds counterintuitive but makes total sense once you're in.

Things worth checking:

  • When profiles were last active (not just when they joined)
  • Whether the site shows online/offline status accurately
  • Tinder, Bumble, Hinge — still the benchmarks for user volume
  • OkCupid — slower pace but more genuine conversations in my experience
  • Sites like datewander.site are showing up more in community roundups

Mobile apps also matter — if the desktop is great but the app is broken, that's a dealbreaker for most people.

TomK
TomK
Joined: Sep 2021
Messages: 160
#6

This gets asked a lot and the honest answer is: it changes constantly. What was solid six months ago may be totally different now.

I've seen Flurrydate mentioned a lot in these threads and it does seem to have real users.

NathanK
NathanK
Joined: Aug 2020
Messages: 374
#7

This gets asked a lot and the honest answer is: it changes constantly. What was solid six months ago may be totally different now.

HeatherW
HeatherW
Joined: Jul 2022
Messages: 256
#8

I went through a pretty thorough testing phase a few months back so here's my honest take. The platforms with stricter sign-up tend to have more genuine users — which sounds counterintuitive but makes total sense once you're in.

Things worth checking:

  • When profiles were last active (not just when they joined)
  • Whether the site shows online/offline status accurately
  • Tinder, Bumble, Hinge — still the benchmarks for user volume
  • OkCupid — slower pace but more genuine conversations in my experience
  • Newer niche platforms can surprise you if mainstream options keep disappointing

Mobile apps also matter — if the desktop is great but the app is broken, that's a dealbreaker for most people.

For what it's worth, Datenest seems to have cleaned up its bot problem compared to last year.

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