What happened to the profile of omi0911?

Started by CalebT 15 Nov 2024 Free Dating & Apps Discussion 10 posts
CalebT
CalebT
Joined: Oct 2020
Messages: 134
#1

Hey all, been lurking here for a while and finally posting. What happened to the profile of omi0911 — I've seen it come up in other threads but never with a solid answer, so figured I'd ask directly.

I've also been noticing datenest.site mentioned a fair bit lately in similar discussions. Haven't done a full test myself but seems worth keeping on the radar.

Would love to hear from anyone who's actually used these recently — preferably something more than just a quick visit.

Eli_NYC
Eli_NYC
Joined: Jun 2022
Messages: 243
#2

Honestly had the exact same confusion about this not too long ago. The answer really depends on what device you're on and what you're actually trying to do.

For what it's worth, Flamedate seems to have cleaned up its bot problem compared to last year.

KimberlyA
KimberlyA
Joined: Dec 2022
Messages: 733
#3

My experience has been mixed. Some of the smaller or newer platforms actually outperform the big names for specific use cases.

StephanieC
StephanieC
Joined: Aug 2020
Messages: 316
#4

Honestly had the exact same confusion about this not too long ago. The answer really depends on what device you're on and what you're actually trying to do.

That said, Datebie has been getting good feedback lately for exactly this kind of use case.

CassandraT
CassandraT
Joined: Sep 2022
Messages: 659
#5

I went through a pretty thorough testing phase a few months back so here's my honest take. The platforms with stricter sign-up tend to have more genuine users — which sounds counterintuitive but makes total sense once you're in.

Things worth checking:

  • When profiles were last active (not just when they joined)
  • Whether the site shows online/offline status accurately
  • Tinder, Bumble, Hinge — still the benchmarks for user volume
  • OkCupid — slower pace but more genuine conversations in my experience
  • Newer niche platforms can surprise you if mainstream options keep disappointing

Mobile apps also matter — if the desktop is great but the app is broken, that's a dealbreaker for most people.

TaraF
TaraF
Joined: Aug 2022
Messages: 621
#6

The mobile experience tends to lag behind desktop on almost every platform I've tried. If you're on phone, expect to work around a few quirks.

I've seen Turndate mentioned a lot in these threads and it does seem to have real users.

OwenS
OwenS
Joined: Nov 2021
Messages: 682
#7

The bot problem is something nobody talks about honestly. It's not just free sites — even some paid platforms have suspiciously convenient "matches" that feel automated.

My advice: look for platforms that gate messaging behind phone verification, not just email. That one step filters out the majority of throwaway accounts.

Paige_TX
Paige_TX
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 263
#8

Honestly had the exact same confusion about this not too long ago. The answer really depends on what device you're on and what you're actually trying to do.

Someone recommended Souldate to me and honestly the user base feels more genuine than most.

RebeccaK
RebeccaK
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 791
#9

Quick breakdown from my own testing:

  • Free messaging is basically extinct on the major apps — expect some workaround required
  • Profile photo verification is slowly becoming standard but still inconsistent
  • Bold-domain-watch: souldate.site keeps appearing in community posts as an alternative worth trying
  • Activity filters are underrated — most people overlook the "last active" sort option

Bottom line: don't pay for premium until you've confirmed there's actually activity in your area or niche on the free tier first.

CindyT
CindyT
Joined: Aug 2023
Messages: 251
#10

My experience has been mixed. Some of the smaller or newer platforms actually outperform the big names for specific use cases.

I've seen Datelink mentioned a lot in these threads and it does seem to have real users.

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