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Is junor1999 still a verified model?

Started by JulieC 22 May 2026 Dating Apps 9 posts Last reply 20 Jul 2026 #a#d#e#f
JulieC, DateBound member
Joined Oct 2020
776 messages
#1

Although people disagree here, the step that matters most is to keep the first message short and specific: it saves a lot of wasted evenings. Is junor1999 still a verified model — I've seen it come up in other threads but never with a solid answer, so figured I'd ask directly.

  • Privacy features are basically nonexistent on the free plans
  • Tried half a dozen options this past month
  • The user activity varies a lot depending on time of day

I've also been noticing turndate.site mentioned a fair bit lately in similar discussions. These past few weeks I noticed the daily match cap behaving differently on most of the free apps, though it settles down after a while.

Having tried most of these, the boost system is the thing that decides it, even if the forum-style sites rarely say so.

WhitneyJ, DateBound member
Joined Jun 2022
643 messages
#2

If you keep matching but never talking, give it a full week before judging — the alternative is a dead inbox. The boost system changed massively after giving it a proper go, which is worth knowing before you sign up.

Despite the fact that people disagree here, the step that matters most is to report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them: it costs nothing to try.

AlexR, DateBound member
Joined Sep 2020
625 messages
#3

Keep your expectations low for the first fortnight, because it costs nothing to try, but it is not the disaster people claim. What surprised me was that the age check matters a fair bit more than the profile prompt, which most people notice within a week.

Skip anything asking for a card number to read messages, because that is where most people give up too early, and it makes a real difference. The photo review changed somewhat after giving it a proper go, though it depends heavily on where you live.

In the same vein, the Datescout side of things moves faster on casual browsing, though your mileage will vary.

WillH, DateBound member
Joined Jun 2021
690 messages
#4

The profile prompt and the search filter setup pull in opposite directions, and it makes a real difference. While people disagree here, the step that matters most is to move to a proper conversation quickly: the difference in reply rate is obvious.

Keep your expectations low for the first fortnight, because it costs nothing to try, which explains a lot of the complaints here.

For a change of pace, the Datebie boards reads as more honest about anyone starting from scratch if that matches what you want.

NoahG, DateBound member
Joined Oct 2023
187 messages
#5

The thing that finally clicked was that the newer sites have quietly changed how that works throughout most of last year.

  • Though people disagree here, the step that matters most is to say what you actually want up front: that is where most people give up too early
  • Honestly, I'd widen the distance radius early on rather than use a recent photo with your face clear, since otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day
  • Bold-domain-watch: datescout.site keeps appearing in community posts as an alternative worth trying
  • Check the free tier limits before you commit, because the alternative is a dead inbox, which is worth knowing before you sign up

If I'm honest, the ones with a paywall have dropped the feature everyone used, and that alone put me off.

SusanB, DateBound member
Joined May 2022
949 messages
#6

If you are in a smaller town, keep the first message short and specific — that is the part that actually moves the needle. If your inbox is dead, widen the distance radius early on — it saves a lot of wasted evenings.

Although the swipe-based apps look similar, the reporting system differs slightly, so results vary more than you'd think.

  • While people disagree here, the step that matters most is to skip anything asking for a card number to read messages: it filters out the time wasters fast
  • Realistically, if you are only browsing free options the answer is usually to read the last few pages of a thread before asking rather than keep the first message short and specific
  • Even if people disagree here, the step that matters most is to read the last few pages of a thread before asking: the first week is never representative
  • Give it a full week before judging, because that is the part that actually moves the needle, so results vary more than you'd think
  • From the threads I've read, I'd test two platforms at once rather than write a profile that gives someone something to reply to, since most complaints trace back to that one thing

Granted people disagree here, the step that matters most is to test two platforms at once: it saves a lot of wasted evenings.

The photo review changed somewhat these past few weeks, which explains a lot of the complaints here.

If you want another option, Datewander has fewer complaints about anyone after something slower if that matches what you want.

LisaH, DateBound member
Joined May 2019
832 messages
#7

In practice, if you have limited time in the evenings the answer is usually to test two platforms at once rather than move to a proper conversation quickly. Even if the chat-first sites look similar, the distance radius differs slightly, and nobody warns you about it.

If the bigger apps have gone quiet, the Flamedate side of things is more forgiving about the local side of things before you write the whole category off.

SteveR1, DateBound member
Joined Jul 2020
414 messages
#8

The discovery feed and the daily match cap pull in opposite directions, but it is not the disaster people claim. I stuck with the bigger platforms after a slow start, and the honest result was that the discovery feed mattered a little most.

Going by my own attempts, if your inbox is dead the answer is usually to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to rather than keep your expectations low for the first fortnight.

  • Granted apps with a video option look similar, the block list differs hardly at all, and nobody warns you about it
  • The messaging limit and the discovery feed pull in opposite directions, but it is not the disaster people claim
  • Despite the fact that people disagree here, the step that matters most is to say what you actually want up front: it saves a lot of wasted evenings
  • If you want something casual, report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them — most complaints trace back to that one thing
  • In practice, the forum-style sites have changed the matching order without saying so, which most people notice within a week

If you keep matching but never talking, move to a proper conversation quickly — it stops you blaming the app for the profile.

I stuck with the ones people keep recommending in the time I've been posting here, and the honest result was that the profile prompt mattered slightly most.

On the same subject, datingfly.online moves faster on anyone after something slower before you write the whole category off.

Ben1989, DateBound member
Joined Jul 2021
381 messages
#9

From the threads I've read, the bigger platforms have got noticeably worse for bots, and it makes a real difference. Despite the fact that people disagree here, the step that matters most is to check the free tier limits before you commit: otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day.

When you keep getting the same profiles, the niche ones tend to feel marginally worse than they are, which is worth knowing before you sign up. On reflection, the boost system is the thing that decides it, granted the regional platforms rarely say so.

If you want a second opinion, souldate keeps getting recommended for wider search radiuses, going by the last few threads.

Regulars on this board post their own attempt below.

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