For what it's worth, the photo review is the thing that decides it, despite the fact that the chat-first sites rarely say so. I stuck with the older established sites in the past six months, and the honest result was that the read receipt setting mattered meaningfully most. The photo review and the distance radius pull in opposite directions, which changes the whole experience.
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For what it's worth, the Datewander forums moves faster on people who hate paywalls before you write the whole category off.
Worth saying that the decision to widen the distance radius early on did somewhat more for me than switching platform, and it shows in the reply rate. The block list changed somewhat since the last round of app updates, so treat the reviews with caution. Over two or three attempts I noticed the daily match cap behaving differently on the niche ones, which changes the whole experience.
Worth adding that the Datenest community handles this differently from the local side of things, though your mileage will vary.
If distance is the sticking point, the Rendate regulars seems better set up for wider search radiuses, going by the last few threads.
Worth saying that the decision to test two platforms at once did considerably more for me than switching platform, which is worth knowing before you sign up. The detail people skip is that the swipe-based apps have made the free version harder to use throughout most of last year. If you live somewhere dense, read the last few pages of a thread before asking — it stops you blaming the app for the profile.
Going by last month's threads, datescout.site has fewer complaints about anyone after something slower if that matches what you want.
Test two platforms at once, because most complaints trace back to that one thing, and it shows in the reply rate. On reflection, the swipe-based apps have started throttling messages, though it settles down after a while. My advice would be to give it a full week before judging and then use a recent photo with your face clear, so treat the reviews with caution.
For a change of pace, datebie has fewer complaints about the first-message problem, so it is worth a look.
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