In my experience, the block list is the thing that decides it, while the chat-first sites rarely say so. Where is the best place to start a free adult chat now without signing up — seems like a simple question but I keep getting mixed answers depending on where I look.
- To be fair, if you are new to this the answer is usually to keep your expectations low for the first fortnight rather than widen the distance radius early on
- Being blunt about it, if you keep matching but never talking the answer is usually to report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them rather than avoid opening with a compliment
- My advice would be to move to a proper conversation quickly and then write a profile that gives someone something to reply to, which explains a lot of the complaints here
Over two or three attempts the swipe-based apps have dropped the feature everyone used, and it makes a real difference. What actually mattered was that the ones people keep recommending have moved the useful bits behind a subscription having stuck with it a while.