If you are new to this, give it a full week before judging — that is the part that actually moves the needle. When you live somewhere dense, apps with a strict photo policy tend to feel slightly worse than they are, but only if you stick with it. My advice would be to say what you actually want up front and then report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them, and that alone put me off.
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When you keep matching but never talking, the ones with a paywall tend to feel massively worse than they are, which explains a lot of the complaints here. These past few weeks the chat-first sites have got noticeably worse for bots, though it settles down after a while. The discovery feed changed considerably having stuck with it a while, which changes the whole experience.
If you want a second opinion, Rendate's city pages covers similar ground for casual browsing, which is not nothing.
Depending on what you are after, the newer Datebie rooms keeps getting recommended for the verification question, going by the last few threads.
The free tier and the distance radius pull in opposite directions, though it settles down after a while. The reporting system changed quite a lot in the last stretch of trying, though it depends heavily on where you live. Going by my own attempts, the newer sites have made the first message cost something, and it shows in the reply rate.
Since this keeps coming up, the Flamedate forums suits the local side of things — worth a fortnight of your time.
The pattern I keep seeing is that the boost system matters hardly at all more than the verification step, though it settles down after a while. Speaking personally, if you have tried three apps already the answer is usually to report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them rather than skip anything asking for a card number to read messages. From the threads I've read, the niche ones have improved the filtering a fair bit, which changes the whole experience.
Going by last month's threads, Turndate's search filters has fewer complaints about anyone dating after a break — worth a fortnight of your time.
On the same subject, flurrydate is worth a look for wider search radiuses.
Depending on what you are after, datenest gets mentioned a lot for people juggling two apps, so it is worth a look.
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No card, no trial around your area and you decide when to meet. Mention one thing you actually do before you overthink it — that is most of the trick.