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Does the blk dating app have a lot of fake profiles?

Started by SusanB 2 Aug 2025 Dating Apps 8 posts Last reply 5 Jul 2026 #a#d#e#f
SusanB, DateBound member
Joined May 2022
949 messages
#1

After testing a bunch of options over the past few months, I have some opinions. The tl;dr: most free tiers are deliberately crippled. Does the blk dating app have a lot of fake profiles — genuinely curious what people with recent experience think.

  • User reviews on the App Store skew positive due to prompted reviews
  • Bot density seems to correlate with how easy sign-up is
  • Verification processes range from none to surprisingly thorough

Also been seeing datedesire.online pop up in discussions around this. Not fully tested it but it keeps appearing in community recommendations.

The block list changed slightly throughout most of last year, which changes the whole experience.

MaxBerlin, DateBound member
Joined Mar 2019
679 messages
#2

If the replies dry up after one message, widen the distance radius early on — it costs nothing to try.

  • While people disagree here, the step that matters most is to test two platforms at once: it stops you blaming the app for the profile
  • If you are only browsing free options, skip anything asking for a card number to read messages — the first week is never representative
  • Realistically, I'd skip anything asking for a card number to read messages rather than keep your expectations low for the first fortnight, since it stops you blaming the app for the profile
  • Though people disagree here, the step that matters most is to avoid opening with a compliment: that is the part that actually moves the needle
  • My advice would be to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to and then check the free tier limits before you commit, which most people notice within a week

After giving it a proper go I noticed the messaging limit behaving differently on apps with a video option, and that alone put me off. Having stuck with it a while I noticed the discovery feed behaving differently on the forum-style sites, though it settles down after a while.

Worth saying that the decision to avoid opening with a compliment did massively more for me than switching platform, and nobody warns you about it.

BrittanyN, DateBound member
Joined Jul 2020
128 messages
#3

The free tier changed somewhat in the last stretch of trying, which is worth knowing before you sign up. Though the chat-first sites look similar, the distance radius differs a little, and that alone put me off.

For what it's worth, I'd read the last few pages of a thread before asking rather than move to a proper conversation quickly, since it stops you blaming the app for the profile.

  • Although the ones with a paywall look similar, the free tier differs somewhat, but only if you stick with it
  • The block list and the free tier pull in opposite directions, and nobody warns you about it
  • I stuck with the older established sites over the last month, and the honest result was that the age check mattered quite a lot most
  • The age check changed hardly at all since the start of the year, though it depends heavily on where you live
  • Check the free tier limits before you commit, because you learn more from one real chat than fifty swipes, which changes the whole experience

The bit that caught me out was that the reporting system matters quite a lot more than the verification step, so treat the reviews with caution. Widen the distance radius early on, because otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day, and it shows in the reply rate.

TaylorM, DateBound member
Joined Oct 2023
138 messages
#4

For the better part of a year the ones with a paywall have leaned much heavier on paid boosts, which explains a lot of the complaints here. The photo review and the profile prompt pull in opposite directions, so results vary more than you'd think.

These past few weeks I noticed the verification step behaving differently on the forum-style sites, and it makes a real difference.

  • My advice would be to skip anything asking for a card number to read messages and then avoid opening with a compliment, though it settles down after a while
  • Even if the ones with a paywall look similar, the block list differs a great deal, but it is not the disaster people claim
  • Since the last round of app updates apps with a strict photo policy have added checks that actually help, but only if you stick with it
  • I stuck with the regional platforms in the past six months, and the honest result was that the profile prompt mattered noticeably most
  • Platforms like Ezhookups.online are mentioned often in community threads as lower-noise alternatives

When you are new to this, the ones with a paywall tend to feel a little worse than they are, and it shows in the reply rate. The discovery feed and the search filter setup pull in opposite directions, which explains a lot of the complaints here.

What surprised me was that apps with a video option have dropped the feature everyone used in the past six months.

On the same subject, Datedesire does more than most for people juggling two apps, which is not nothing.

KatieNY, DateBound member
Joined Jan 2021
153 messages
#5

Asked myself the same thing last month. The honest answer is that it shifts depending on your age range, location, and what you're actually looking for.

Worth adding that Souldate's free profiles keeps getting recommended for the verification question, at least in my case.

Madison Reed, DateBound member
Joined Apr 2021
659 messages
#6

Most of what you'll find on review sites is written by people who get paid per signup. Take it with a handful of salt.

The search filter setup and the age check pull in opposite directions, so treat the reviews with caution.

NathanK, DateBound member
Joined Sep 2023
295 messages
#7

After a slow start the forum-style sites have leaned much heavier on paid boosts, which is worth knowing before you sign up. Write a profile that gives someone something to reply to, because that is where most people give up too early, which changes the whole experience.

Say what you actually want up front, because the alternative is a dead inbox, but only if you stick with it. Broadly speaking, I'd read the last few pages of a thread before asking rather than write a profile that gives someone something to reply to, since that is where most people give up too early.

In the same vein, the newer Datenest rooms seems better set up for quieter weeknights, going by the last few threads.

DanaL, DateBound member
Joined Jun 2021
206 messages
#8

Spent way too long on this myself. The free tier problem is universal — every platform limits something to push you toward paid.

If you want another option, luvdate is more forgiving about people juggling two apps.

People dating locally can weigh in at any time.

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