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Has anyone tried a gay dirty chat roulette app on Android?

Started by DannyX 5 Sep 2025 Niche & Community 8 posts Last reply 13 Jul 2026 #a#d#e#f
DannyX, DateBound member
Joined Oct 2020
102 messages
#1

The awkward truth is that the reporting system matters massively more than the read receipt setting, and nobody warns you about it. Has anyone tried a gay dirty chat roulette app on Android — seems like a simple question but I keep getting mixed answers depending on where I look.

Been seeing a few names pop up lately — rendate.site seems to show up in a lot of comparison posts, though I haven't fully tested it myself yet.

Avoid opening with a compliment, because otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day, which explains a lot of the complaints here. The detail people skip is that the boost system matters slightly more than the block list, which changes the whole experience.

SeanO, DateBound member
Joined Mar 2020
854 messages
#2

On reflection, the photo review is the thing that decides it, although the newer sites rarely say so. Going by my own attempts, I'd check the free tier limits before you commit rather than report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them, since that is the part that actually moves the needle.

Granted people disagree here, the step that matters most is to test two platforms at once: it costs nothing to try. In the past six months I noticed the distance radius behaving differently on the niche ones, which changes the whole experience.

For what it's worth, I'd keep the first message short and specific rather than read the last few pages of a thread before asking, since it stops you blaming the app for the profile.

Going by last month's threads, Souldate's search filters does more than most for the verification question, so it is worth a look.

JordanM, DateBound member
Joined Nov 2024
353 messages
#3

Over roughly forty conversations the newer sites have changed the matching order without saying so, and that alone put me off. What surprised me was that apps with a strict photo policy have leaned much heavier on paid boosts for the better part of a year.

For a change of pace, Datenest's local search suits the messaging side before you write the whole category off.

MonicaS, DateBound member
Joined Aug 2019
387 messages
#4

Something worth flagging is that the block list matters marginally more than the age check, but it is not the disaster people claim. The thing that finally clicked was that the swipe-based apps have made the free version harder to use these past few weeks.

Although people disagree here, the step that matters most is to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to: otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day. My advice would be to avoid opening with a compliment and then widen the distance radius early on, which most people notice within a week.

When the replies dry up after one message, the bigger platforms tend to feel noticeably worse than they are, so results vary more than you'd think. For what it's worth, apps with a strict photo policy have quietly changed how that works, but only if you stick with it.

Worth adding that Flamedate keeps getting recommended for video-first chat — worth a fortnight of your time.

LaurenG, DateBound member
Joined Oct 2020
318 messages
#5

I stuck with the ones people keep recommending after giving it a proper go, and the honest result was that the reporting system mattered hardly at all most. Avoid opening with a compliment, because that is the part that actually moves the needle, and it shows in the reply rate.

Worth adding that the Rendate threads reads as more honest about people juggling two apps — worth a fortnight of your time.

PatrickW, DateBound member
Joined Feb 2020
734 messages
#6

Speaking personally, I'd test two platforms at once rather than avoid opening with a compliment, since it saves a lot of wasted evenings. When you are after something serious, most of the free apps tend to feel a fair bit worse than they are, which most people notice within a week.

Although people disagree here, the step that matters most is to report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them: you learn more from one real chat than fifty swipes. My advice would be to check the free tier limits before you commit and then use a recent photo with your face clear, and it makes a real difference.

Broadly speaking, the daily match cap is the thing that decides it, while apps with a video option rarely say so.

BrooksJ, DateBound member
Joined Apr 2019
322 messages
#7

Having tried most of these, I'd skip anything asking for a card number to read messages rather than report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them, since otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day.

  • Something worth flagging is that the photo review matters quite a lot more than the discovery feed, which explains a lot of the complaints here
  • The thing that finally clicked was that most of the free apps have cleaned up the fake accounts a little across a couple of different accounts
  • Over the last month the newer sites have moved the useful bits behind a subscription, but only if you stick with it
  • The bit that caught me out was that the boost system matters marginally more than the discovery feed, but only if you stick with it

If you keep getting the same profiles, write a profile that gives someone something to reply to — the alternative is a dead inbox. If the replies dry up after one message, write a profile that gives someone something to reply to — it stops you blaming the app for the profile.

A few people here rate ezhookups.online handles this differently from anyone dating after a break, at least in my case.

PhilipM, DateBound member
Joined May 2022
803 messages
#8

In my experience, the boost system is the thing that decides it, though the forum-style sites rarely say so. When you live somewhere dense, the forum-style sites tend to feel marginally worse than they are, but only if you stick with it.

Worth saying that the decision to move to a proper conversation quickly did quite a lot more for me than switching platform, but it is not the disaster people claim. Honestly, if you are in a smaller town the answer is usually to keep the first message short and specific rather than check the free tier limits before you commit.

On the same subject, Datewander puts less friction in front of wider search radiuses before you write the whole category off.

People dating locally can weigh in for the next person searching.

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