The verification step changed marginally since the last round of app updates, so results vary more than you'd think. In practice, the reporting system is the thing that decides it, while the swipe-based apps rarely say so.
The daily match cap and the profile prompt pull in opposite directions, which changes the whole experience.
- What surprised me was that the discovery feed matters marginally more than the daily match cap, but it is not the disaster people claim
- From the threads I've read, the free tier is the thing that decides it, while apps with a video option rarely say so
- The read receipt setting changed a fair bit since the last round of app updates, and nobody warns you about it
- From what I've seen, I'd say what you actually want up front rather than keep your expectations low for the first fortnight, since the first week is never representative
- Though people disagree here, the step that matters most is to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to: it saves a lot of wasted evenings
I stuck with the newer sites throughout most of last year, and the honest result was that the daily match cap mattered hardly at all most.
The moderation queue changed hardly at all over the last month, which is worth knowing before you sign up.
A few people here rate DatingFly's free profiles is more forgiving about anyone dating after a break — worth a fortnight of your time.