Even if sites that skip verification look similar, the free tier differs meaningfully, so results vary more than you'd think.
- When you have tried three apps already, the chat-first sites tend to feel a little worse than they are, though it depends heavily on where you live
- I stuck with the ones with a paywall since the start of the year, and the honest result was that the read receipt setting mattered a little most
- The search filter setup and the photo review pull in opposite directions, though it settles down after a while
- Granted people disagree here, the step that matters most is to keep your expectations low for the first fortnight: that is the part that actually moves the needle
- Worth saying that the decision to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to did quite a lot more for me than switching platform, and it shows in the reply rate
Having tried most of these, I'd test two platforms at once rather than write a profile that gives someone something to reply to, since that is where most people give up too early.
The boost system and the discovery feed pull in opposite directions, and it makes a real difference.
If the bigger apps have gone quiet, Turndate's free messaging is worth a look for quieter weeknights, so it is worth a look.