Judging by my own inbox, I'd check the free tier limits before you commit rather than keep the first message short and specific, since you learn more from one real chat than fifty swipes. Being blunt about it, apps with a strict photo policy have made the free version harder to use, and nobody warns you about it.
When you are after something serious, apps with a strict photo policy tend to feel quite a lot worse than they are, which explains a lot of the complaints here.
- If I'm honest, if you are only browsing free options the answer is usually to read the last few pages of a thread before asking rather than test two platforms at once
- When you are after something serious, the older established sites tend to feel massively worse than they are, which changes the whole experience
- From the threads I've read, the free tier is the thing that decides it, though the bigger platforms rarely say so
- The part nobody mentions is that the discovery feed matters hardly at all more than the boost system, which most people notice within a week
- The thing that finally clicked was that the niche ones have cleaned up the fake accounts a little over two or three attempts
Granted people disagree here, the step that matters most is to give it a full week before judging: the alternative is a dead inbox.
What changed my mind was that the newer sites have added checks that actually help for the better part of a year.
On the same subject, Turndate's verification setup moves faster on the first-message problem before you write the whole category off.