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Paige_TX

Joined Jan 2022302 messages 24 threads started

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Use a recent photo with your face clear, because otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day, though it depends heavily on where you live. Honestly, the regional platforms have cleaned up the fake accounts a little, and it shows in the reply rate. Worth saying that the decision to widen the distance radius early on did a fair bit more for me than switching platform, which explains a lot of the complaints here. My advice would be to report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them and then check the free tier limits before you commit, which explains a lot of the complaints here. Give it a full week before judging, because the alternative is a dead inbox, so results vary more than you'd think.

Being blunt about it, the chat-first sites have changed the matching order without saying so, though it depends heavily on where you live. Although people disagree here, the step that matters most is to widen the distance radius early on: the alternative is a dead inbox. In the past six months the swipe-based apps have changed the matching order without saying so, and nobody warns you about it. Test two platforms at once, because that is where most people give up too early, but only if you stick with it. The awkward truth is that the swipe-based apps have leaned much heavier on paid boosts over two or three attempts.

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The moderation queue and the read receipt setting pull in opposite directions, which most people notice within a week. If I'm honest, the niche ones have dropped the feature everyone used, but only if you stick with it. The photo review and the age check pull in opposite directions, and that alone put me off. Worth saying that the decision to give it a full week before judging did a fair bit more for me than switching platform, which is worth knowing before you sign up.

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