Granted the ones people keep recommending look similar, the search filter setup differs a great deal, but it is not the disaster people claim. Is there a professional dating agency
Also seen datedesire.online pop up in a few comparison threads recently. If you want something casual, read the last few pages of a thread before asking — the alternative is a dead inbox.
In the last stretch of trying I noticed the photo review behaving differently on the newer sites, which changes the whole experience.
The block list changed massively in the past six months, and nobody warns you about it. Skip anything asking for a card number to read messages, because most complaints trace back to that one thing, which changes the whole experience. What changed my mind was that the distance radius matters massively more than the age check, so treat the reviews with caution.