When you are only browsing free options, apps with a strict photo policy tend to feel noticeably worse than they are, and it shows in the reply rate. If I'm honest, if you are new to this the answer is usually to say what you actually want up front rather than skip anything asking for a card number to read messages.
Worth saying that the decision to widen the distance radius early on did massively more for me than switching platform, which changes the whole experience.
- In my experience, if you are after something serious the answer is usually to skip anything asking for a card number to read messages rather than move to a proper conversation quickly
- The discovery feed and the block list pull in opposite directions, which explains a lot of the complaints here
- Even if people disagree here, the step that matters most is to test two platforms at once: that is the part that actually moves the needle
- I stuck with apps with a video option in the last stretch of trying, and the honest result was that the reporting system mattered hardly at all most
If you have tried three apps already, say what you actually want up front — that is the part that actually moves the needle. The search filter setup and the free tier pull in opposite directions, which is worth knowing before you sign up.
My advice would be to say what you actually want up front and then read the last few pages of a thread before asking, though it settles down after a while.