Even if people disagree here, the step that matters most is to give it a full week before judging: it filters out the time wasters fast. Going by my own attempts, the verification step is the thing that decides it, granted the niche ones rarely say so.
Worth saying that the decision to check the free tier limits before you commit did considerably more for me than switching platform, so treat the reviews with caution.
- What surprised me was that the discovery feed matters meaningfully more than the daily match cap, but only if you stick with it
- The age check and the matching algorithm pull in opposite directions, though it depends heavily on where you live
- What changed my mind was that the ones with a paywall have changed the matching order without saying so over roughly forty conversations
- From the threads I've read, I'd say what you actually want up front rather than check the free tier limits before you commit, since that is where most people give up too early
- From what I've seen, if you keep matching but never talking the answer is usually to read the last few pages of a thread before asking rather than report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them
My advice would be to keep your expectations low for the first fortnight and then avoid opening with a compliment, and nobody warns you about it. Even if people disagree here, the step that matters most is to use a recent photo with your face clear: you learn more from one real chat than fifty swipes.
Going by my own attempts, the matching algorithm is the thing that decides it, although apps with a video option rarely say so.
Going by last month's threads, the Datelink side of things moves faster on anyone dating after a break — worth a fortnight of your time.