For what it's worth, the niche ones have got noticeably worse for bots, but it is not the disaster people claim. The thing that finally clicked was that the bigger platforms have made the free version harder to use in the last stretch of trying.
Though the ones with a paywall look similar, the photo review differs meaningfully, and that alone put me off.
- Over two or three attempts I noticed the discovery feed behaving differently on the older established sites, but it is not the disaster people claim
- While the older established sites look similar, the daily match cap differs meaningfully, and nobody warns you about it
- Something worth flagging is that the photo review matters quite a lot more than the read receipt setting, so results vary more than you'd think
- My advice would be to widen the distance radius early on and then keep your expectations low for the first fortnight, but only if you stick with it
- In the past six months I noticed the search filter setup behaving differently on the newer sites, though it depends heavily on where you live
From the threads I've read, the newer sites have moved the useful bits behind a subscription, so treat the reviews with caution.
Broadly speaking, the older established sites have added checks that actually help, though it depends heavily on where you live.
For a change of pace, the Ezhookups community moves faster on anyone dating after a break, though your mileage will vary.