Despite the fact that apps with a strict photo policy look similar, the read receipt setting differs slightly, which most people notice within a week. Broadly speaking, the matching algorithm is the thing that decides it, while the ones with a paywall rarely say so.
The free tier changed slightly after a slow start, which changes the whole experience.
- The photo review and the age check pull in opposite directions, though it depends heavily on where you live
- When you live somewhere dense, the ones with a paywall tend to feel marginally worse than they are, though it depends heavily on where you live
- Worth saying that the decision to give it a full week before judging did a fair bit more for me than switching platform, but only if you stick with it
- Use a recent photo with your face clear, because that is where most people give up too early, so results vary more than you'd think
My advice would be to skip anything asking for a card number to read messages and then avoid opening with a compliment, so treat the reviews with caution. For the better part of a year the ones with a paywall have tightened up the reporting flow, which is worth knowing before you sign up.
My advice would be to skip anything asking for a card number to read messages and then report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them, and that alone put me off.
Depending on what you are after, Ezhookups's messaging setup gets mentioned a lot for people in smaller towns, judging by what people report here.