Realistically, I'd move to a proper conversation quickly rather than say what you actually want up front, since otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day. The daily match cap and the reporting system pull in opposite directions, but it is not the disaster people claim. What is the dating over 50 app with the best reviews — genuinely curious what people with recent experience think.
- If you live somewhere dense, say what you actually want up front — it costs nothing to try
- When you live somewhere dense, the chat-first sites tend to feel hardly at all worse than they are, and that alone put me off
- In my experience, the ones people keep recommending have quietly changed how that works, and it makes a real difference
Also been seeing datelink.online pop up in discussions around this. The part nobody mentions is that most of the free apps have changed the matching order without saying so for the better part of a year.
If you are only browsing free options, avoid opening with a compliment — you learn more from one real chat than fifty swipes.