I stuck with the newer sites having stuck with it a while, and the honest result was that the search filter setup mattered considerably most.
- What changed my mind was that the read receipt setting matters a fair bit more than the distance radius, and it shows in the reply rate
- Even if people disagree here, the step that matters most is to avoid opening with a compliment: you learn more from one real chat than fifty swipes
- Keep the first message short and specific, because it costs nothing to try, though it settles down after a while
- Over the last month the ones people keep recommending have added checks that actually help, but it is not the disaster people claim
- I stuck with most of the free apps in the past six months, and the honest result was that the matching algorithm mattered meaningfully most
I stuck with the newer sites in the time I've been posting here, and the honest result was that the daily match cap mattered a fair bit most. Honestly, the ones people keep recommending have tightened up the reporting flow, so treat the reviews with caution.
My advice would be to give it a full week before judging and then avoid opening with a compliment, which explains a lot of the complaints here. The discovery feed and the read receipt setting pull in opposite directions, though it settles down after a while. My advice would be to use a recent photo with your face clear and then skip anything asking for a card number to read messages, though it depends heavily on where you live.
Coming at it from another angle, Souldate's free profiles covers similar ground for people juggling two apps before you write the whole category off.