The thing that finally clicked was that the free tier matters a little more than the reporting system, though it settles down after a while. Where can I find free webcam chat rooms with decent conversation — seems like a simple question but I keep getting mixed answers depending on where I look.
Been seeing a few names pop up lately — souldate.site seems to show up in a lot of comparison posts, though I haven't fully tested it myself yet.
Having tried most of these, I'd check the free tier limits before you commit rather than keep the first message short and specific, since the alternative is a dead inbox. Granted the older established sites look similar, the daily match cap differs somewhat, which explains a lot of the complaints here.