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Worth saying that the decision to say what you actually want up front did a great deal more for me than switching platform, which most people notice within a week. The photo review changed considerably since the start of the year, which explains a lot of the complaints here.
Worth saying that the decision to keep your expectations low for the first fortnight did slightly more for me than switching platform, so treat the reviews with caution. If your inbox is dead, report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them — it filters out the time wasters fast.