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- Having tried most of these, if you are after something serious the answer is usually to keep your expectations low for the first fortnight rather than keep the first message short and specific
- Worth saying that the decision to skip anything asking for a card number to read messages did somewhat more for me than switching platform, and it shows in the reply rate
- Move to a proper conversation quickly, because it costs nothing to try, and it makes a real difference
I've also been noticing souldate.site mentioned a fair bit lately in similar discussions. If you live somewhere dense, move to a proper conversation quickly — it stops you blaming the app for the profile.
Across a couple of different accounts I noticed the distance radius behaving differently on the ones with a paywall, which is worth knowing before you sign up.
The verification step and the block list pull in opposite directions, so treat the reviews with caution. The block list and the moderation queue pull in opposite directions, and nobody warns you about it.