Over the last month I noticed the daily match cap behaving differently on the niche ones, which most people notice within a week. Since the start of the year I noticed the matching algorithm behaving differently on the bigger platforms, but it is not the disaster people claim.
- In my experience, the free tier is the thing that decides it, despite the fact that the older established sites rarely say so
- The pattern I keep seeing is that the older established sites have dropped the feature everyone used in the last stretch of trying
- Though people disagree here, the step that matters most is to say what you actually want up front: that is the part that actually moves the needle
Sometimes the best move is trying a niche platform with a smaller but more genuine user base.
My advice would be to skip anything asking for a card number to read messages and then check the free tier limits before you commit, and that alone put me off.
A few people here rate Datelink's search filters has fewer complaints about wider search radiuses.