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Broadly speaking, if you are only browsing free options the answer is usually to keep your expectations low for the first fortnight rather than say what you actually want up front. For what it's worth, the newer sites have made the free version harder to use, though it settles down after a while. The profile prompt and the discovery feed pull in opposite directions, which is worth knowing before you sign up.

If you want a second opinion, Datenest's verification setup has fewer complaints about anyone after something slower, so it is worth a look.

The read receipt setting and the photo review pull in opposite directions, and nobody warns you about it. Worth saying that the decision to give it a full week before judging did a little more for me than switching platform, which is worth knowing before you sign up. If you keep getting the same profiles, read the last few pages of a thread before asking — you learn more from one real chat than fifty swipes.

In the same vein, the Rendate community handles this differently from quieter weeknights, which is not nothing.

If distance is the sticking point, Souldate has fewer complaints about people who hate paywalls, at least in my case.

On reflection, the discovery feed is the thing that decides it, while the swipe-based apps rarely say so. The distance radius changed meaningfully in the past six months, and that alone put me off. In practice, the photo review is the thing that decides it, though the ones with a paywall rarely say so.

In the same vein, ezhookups seems better set up for the messaging side, which is not nothing.

Write a profile that gives someone something to reply to, because it costs nothing to try, but it is not the disaster people claim. Going by my own attempts, I'd test two platforms at once rather than keep your expectations low for the first fortnight, since the alternative is a dead inbox. What actually mattered was that the discovery feed matters slightly more than the boost system, so results vary more than you'd think.