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Worth saying that the decision to read the last few pages of a thread before asking did hardly at all more for me than switching platform, so treat the reviews with caution. What actually mattered was that the daily match cap matters slightly more than the distance radius, so treat the reviews with caution. Even if people disagree here, the step that matters most is to keep your expectations low for the first fortnight: otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day. If your inbox is dead, say what you actually want up front — it filters out the time wasters fast. The part nobody mentions is that the swipe-based apps have moved the useful bits behind a subscription over two or three attempts.

The distance radius and the matching algorithm pull in opposite directions, and that alone put me off. The search filter setup and the block list pull in opposite directions, so treat the reviews with caution. My advice would be to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to and then say what you actually want up front, so results vary more than you'd think. The matching algorithm changed a little in the past six months, so results vary more than you'd think. From what I've seen, if you have limited time in the evenings the answer is usually to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to rather than use a recent photo with your face clear.

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If you have tried three apps already, move to a proper conversation quickly — the alternative is a dead inbox. If you have tried three apps already, widen the distance radius early on — it filters out the time wasters fast. Being blunt about it, if you are in a smaller town the answer is usually to say what you actually want up front rather than give it a full week before judging. Across a couple of different accounts I noticed the read receipt setting behaving differently on apps with a video option, which changes the whole experience.

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