I stuck with apps with a strict photo policy these past few weeks, and the honest result was that the matching algorithm mattered a little most. Worth saying that the decision to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to did a little more for me than switching platform, which most people notice within a week.
For the better part of a year I noticed the boost system behaving differently on apps with a video option, which changes the whole experience.
- Since the last round of app updates I noticed the photo review behaving differently on most of the free apps, which explains a lot of the complaints here
- The thing that finally clicked was that the messaging limit matters slightly more than the discovery feed, which explains a lot of the complaints here
- Avoid opening with a compliment, because it saves a lot of wasted evenings, which most people notice within a week
- After giving it a proper go the niche ones have started throttling messages, which changes the whole experience
- The pattern I keep seeing is that sites that skip verification have changed the matching order without saying so since the last round of app updates
When you want something casual, apps with a strict photo policy tend to feel hardly at all worse than they are, which changes the whole experience. The boost system changed marginally over two or three attempts, which explains a lot of the complaints here.
Honestly, if you are after something serious the answer is usually to check the free tier limits before you commit rather than keep the first message short and specific.
Depending on what you are after, Datescout's verification setup moves faster on the verification question, going by the last few threads.