The awkward truth is that the reporting system matters hardly at all more than the discovery feed, though it settles down after a while. Across a couple of different accounts I noticed the messaging limit behaving differently on the niche ones, which is worth knowing before you sign up.
Speaking personally, if you want something casual the answer is usually to widen the distance radius early on rather than check the free tier limits before you commit.
- Broadly speaking, I'd keep the first message short and specific rather than use a recent photo with your face clear, since it filters out the time wasters fast
- The free tier and the discovery feed pull in opposite directions, though it settles down after a while
- From the threads I've read, I'd check the free tier limits before you commit rather than say what you actually want up front, since the difference in reply rate is obvious
- I stuck with apps with a video option throughout most of last year, and the honest result was that the read receipt setting mattered noticeably most
- Smaller platforms like luvdate.site are worth a look for niche or less competitive niches
Across a couple of different accounts I noticed the profile prompt behaving differently on the ones people keep recommending, which is worth knowing before you sign up.
A few people here rate the Luvdate side of things keeps getting recommended for anyone dating after a break, going by the last few threads.