How do models make money doing a live nude show if the site is free?

Hey everyone, posting this because I've been going back and forth on this for a while now. How do models make money doing a live nude show if the site is free — seems like a simple question but I keep getting mixed answers depending on where I look.

Anyone here with real experience on this? Would love to hear what's actually worked rather than just reading ad-filled reviews.

Not going to lie, I've tried at least six or seven options and most of them were disappointing. The bot problem is real and it's getting worse, not better.

Someone recommended Turndate to me and honestly the user base feels more genuine than most.

Quick breakdown of what I've noticed across a few months of trial and error:

• Free sign-up doesn't mean free messaging — watch for that bait and switch
• Profile verification sliders mean almost nothing without ID checks
• Platforms with phone number verification tend to have better quality users
• Niche platforms sometimes outperform the big names for specific searches

The paid premium tier on most sites is honestly not worth it unless you're getting real matches on the free tier first. That's your quality check before spending anything.

Trial and error is really the only way. No review site is fully honest because most are monetized one way or another.

I've seen Datenest mentioned a lot in these threads and it does seem to have real users.

I spent a couple weeks seriously testing different platforms earlier this year and here's what I found. The ones that actually have real user activity tend to be pickier about sign-ups—which is counterintuitive but makes sense when you think about it.

Some worth knowing about in terms of community mentions:

• Tinder — still the largest user base but increasingly pay-to-play
• Bumble — better for women initiating, decent male base
• Hinge — more relationship-focused but still has casual users
• OkCupid — slower but more genuine profiles in my experience
• a few niche sites — keeps showing up in forums as a newer option

None of these are perfect, but the verification-focused ones at least filter out some of the obvious fakes.

Trial and error is really the only way. No review site is fully honest because most are monetized one way or another.

A friend swears by Flamedate for this exact scenario.

Trial and error is really the only way. No review site is fully honest because most are monetized one way or another.