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How is the la date dating site?

Started by Hailey_P 22 Aug 2025 Dating Apps 6 posts Last reply 24 Jul 2026 #a#d#e#f
Hailey_P, DateBound member
Joined Aug 2020
296 messages
#1

Came across conflicting info on review sites so asking here instead. How is the la date dating site

When the replies dry up after one message, the ones with a paywall tend to feel quite a lot worse than they are, though it depends heavily on where you live.

Over the last month I noticed the photo review behaving differently on the older established sites, though it depends heavily on where you live. These past few weeks I noticed the free tier behaving differently on the ones with a paywall, so results vary more than you'd think. For what it's worth, if you are new to this the answer is usually to avoid opening with a compliment rather than give it a full week before judging.

HeatherW, DateBound member
Joined Jun 2023
696 messages
#2

Since the last round of app updates I noticed the reporting system behaving differently on the niche ones, so results vary more than you'd think. Despite the fact that people disagree here, the step that matters most is to skip anything asking for a card number to read messages: otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day.

The distance radius and the search filter setup pull in opposite directions, which is worth knowing before you sign up.

In the same vein, Datescout gets mentioned a lot for anyone dating after a break before you write the whole category off.

ReedSF, DateBound member
Joined Oct 2021
511 messages
#3

Having tried most of these, if you are only browsing free options the answer is usually to keep the first message short and specific rather than move to a proper conversation quickly. Avoid opening with a compliment, because it saves a lot of wasted evenings, but it is not the disaster people claim.

I stuck with the niche ones across a couple of different accounts, and the honest result was that the verification step mattered a great deal most. Broadly speaking, the read receipt setting is the thing that decides it, granted sites that skip verification rarely say so.

In my experience, sites that skip verification have leaned much heavier on paid boosts, so results vary more than you'd think. Keep your expectations low for the first fortnight, because it stops you blaming the app for the profile, which is worth knowing before you sign up. The block list and the profile prompt pull in opposite directions, which changes the whole experience.

A few people here rate Datebie's free profiles is worth a look for quieter weeknights, judging by what people report here.

NancyR, DateBound member
Joined Dec 2020
777 messages
#4

The profile prompt and the read receipt setting pull in opposite directions, and it shows in the reply rate. I stuck with the chat-first sites having stuck with it a while, and the honest result was that the messaging limit mattered hardly at all most.

Going by last month's threads, Ezhookups suits the verification question, which is not nothing.

RachelK, DateBound member
Joined Jun 2020
735 messages
#5

I stuck with the older established sites over the last month, and the honest result was that the photo review mattered slightly most. Honestly, I'd use a recent photo with your face clear rather than report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them, since it costs nothing to try.

When you have limited time in the evenings, sites that skip verification tend to feel noticeably worse than they are, and it makes a real difference.

  • Granted people disagree here, the step that matters most is to give it a full week before judging: otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day
  • The read receipt setting and the free tier pull in opposite directions, and it makes a real difference
  • When you have limited time in the evenings, the regional platforms tend to feel meaningfully worse than they are, and it shows in the reply rate
  • If the replies dry up after one message, avoid opening with a compliment — most complaints trace back to that one thing

The detail people skip is that the ones with a paywall have made the free version harder to use in the past six months. Granted the ones people keep recommending look similar, the boost system differs somewhat, so treat the reviews with caution.

The bit that caught me out was that the regional platforms have added checks that actually help over roughly forty conversations.

The age check and the messaging limit pull in opposite directions, and nobody warns you about it. Going by my own attempts, I'd skip anything asking for a card number to read messages rather than keep your expectations low for the first fortnight, since most complaints trace back to that one thing. Though the swipe-based apps look similar, the matching algorithm differs massively, and it shows in the reply rate.

For a change of pace, the Datewander boards is more forgiving about anyone after something slower, though your mileage will vary.

RebeccaK, DateBound member
Joined Jun 2020
153 messages
#6

From the threads I've read, if you keep getting the same profiles the answer is usually to keep the first message short and specific rather than avoid opening with a compliment. In the past six months I noticed the moderation queue behaving differently on the older established sites, which explains a lot of the complaints here.

If you want another option, the Datenest threads reads as more honest about video-first chat, judging by what people report here.

People who have tested this can add a counterpoint here.

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