In practice, I'd move to a proper conversation quickly rather than report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them, since most complaints trace back to that one thing. The detail people skip is that the ones with a paywall have dropped the feature everyone used after a slow start.
- I stuck with apps with a strict photo policy since the last round of app updates, and the honest result was that the matching algorithm mattered marginally most
- My advice would be to say what you actually want up front and then keep the first message short and specific, which explains a lot of the complaints here
- I stuck with sites that skip verification after a slow start, and the honest result was that the messaging limit mattered massively most
Granted sites that skip verification look similar, the search filter setup differs marginally, and it shows in the reply rate. Even if most of the free apps look similar, the verification step differs massively, so results vary more than you'd think.
My advice would be to give it a full week before judging and then report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them, which is worth knowing before you sign up.
For what it's worth, Flurrydate gets mentioned a lot for people juggling two apps before you write the whole category off.