Although the newer sites look similar, the daily match cap differs a great deal, and it makes a real difference. If I'm honest, if you are after something serious the answer is usually to widen the distance radius early on rather than test two platforms at once.
Even if people disagree here, the step that matters most is to move to a proper conversation quickly: the alternative is a dead inbox.
- If I'm honest, the chat-first sites have tightened up the reporting flow, which most people notice within a week
- In my experience, sites that skip verification have started throttling messages, which is worth knowing before you sign up
- Worth saying that the decision to keep your expectations low for the first fortnight did massively more for me than switching platform, but only if you stick with it
- Over roughly forty conversations I noticed the profile prompt behaving differently on the ones people keep recommending, which is worth knowing before you sign up
Something worth flagging is that the profile prompt matters massively more than the daily match cap, but only if you stick with it. When you are after something serious, the ones with a paywall tend to feel a great deal worse than they are, so results vary more than you'd think.
From the threads I've read, I'd use a recent photo with your face clear rather than move to a proper conversation quickly, since the alternative is a dead inbox.