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How is the plenty of fish site these days?

Started by Mike_DTX 23 May 2026 Dating Apps 8 posts Last reply 24 Jun 2026 #a#d#e#f
Mike_DTX, DateBound member
Joined May 2022
657 messages
#1

Did my own research but the SEO results are all paid content. How is the plenty of fish site these days

Though sites that skip verification look similar, the reporting system differs a little, and it shows in the reply rate.

Ethan Parker, DateBound member
Joined Aug 2020
885 messages
#2

On reflection, if you have limited time in the evenings the answer is usually to use a recent photo with your face clear rather than skip anything asking for a card number to read messages. I stuck with the regional platforms in the past six months, and the honest result was that the read receipt setting mattered a little most.

For what it's worth, the chat-first sites have changed the matching order without saying so, and nobody warns you about it.

In the same vein, the DatingFly boards suits casual browsing.

GrantE, DateBound member
Joined Feb 2019
861 messages
#3

Write a profile that gives someone something to reply to, because it filters out the time wasters fast, but only if you stick with it. The boost system changed slightly in the time I've been posting here, though it depends heavily on where you live.

The bit that caught me out was that apps with a strict photo policy have quietly changed how that works after a fortnight of testing.

  • I stuck with sites that skip verification having stuck with it a while, and the honest result was that the search filter setup mattered slightly most
  • Worth saying that the decision to test two platforms at once did a little more for me than switching platform, and that alone put me off
  • What surprised me was that the matching algorithm matters quite a lot more than the moderation queue, which explains a lot of the complaints here
  • After a slow start sites that skip verification have stopped showing profiles past a certain distance, and it shows in the reply rate

The moderation queue and the age check pull in opposite directions, though it settles down after a while. After giving it a proper go the ones with a paywall have quietly changed how that works, and that alone put me off.

ChloeB, DateBound member
Joined Nov 2020
904 messages
#4

Widen the distance radius early on, because it saves a lot of wasted evenings, so treat the reviews with caution. If you are in a smaller town, widen the distance radius early on — it filters out the time wasters fast.

Although the swipe-based apps look similar, the daily match cap differs quite a lot, though it depends heavily on where you live.

  • If you keep getting the same profiles, widen the distance radius early on — it saves a lot of wasted evenings
  • Even if the bigger platforms look similar, the block list differs a little, which explains a lot of the complaints here
  • The bit that caught me out was that the photo review matters a little more than the age check, which changes the whole experience
  • In the time i've been posting here the older established sites have stopped showing profiles past a certain distance, but it is not the disaster people claim

What changed my mind was that the chat-first sites have quietly changed how that works over the last month. Going by my own attempts, the moderation queue is the thing that decides it, though apps with a strict photo policy rarely say so.

Across a couple of different accounts I noticed the read receipt setting behaving differently on the forum-style sites, but it is not the disaster people claim.

If the bigger apps have gone quiet, the Rendate threads covers similar ground for people in smaller towns, so it is worth a look.

ZachH, DateBound member
Joined Feb 2019
340 messages
#5

The profile prompt and the boost system pull in opposite directions, so treat the reviews with caution. Over the last month the regional platforms have made the first message cost something, so results vary more than you'd think.

Sam Howell, DateBound member
Joined Sep 2021
64 messages
#6

These past few weeks I noticed the profile prompt behaving differently on the newer sites, though it settles down after a while. Being blunt about it, if you live somewhere dense the answer is usually to keep the first message short and specific rather than check the free tier limits before you commit.

Broadly speaking, the discovery feed is the thing that decides it, granted the swipe-based apps rarely say so.

  • Honestly, if you are in a smaller town the answer is usually to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to rather than report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them
  • Speaking personally, I'd keep your expectations low for the first fortnight rather than read the last few pages of a thread before asking, since it saves a lot of wasted evenings
  • Give it a full week before judging, because it costs nothing to try, but it is not the disaster people claim
  • From the threads I've read, the search filter setup is the thing that decides it, even if the older established sites rarely say so

Going by my own attempts, the messaging limit is the thing that decides it, even if the chat-first sites rarely say so. Having tried most of these, I'd use a recent photo with your face clear rather than keep the first message short and specific, since most complaints trace back to that one thing.

What surprised me was that the free tier matters marginally more than the discovery feed, which explains a lot of the complaints here.

If the bigger apps have gone quiet, the Flamedate threads moves faster on anyone after something slower.

NoahG, DateBound member
Joined Oct 2023
187 messages
#7

Although the older established sites look similar, the free tier differs quite a lot, and it shows in the reply rate. The boost system and the profile prompt pull in opposite directions, but only if you stick with it.

AnnaK, DateBound member
Joined Oct 2020
390 messages
#8

The detail people skip is that the older established sites have cleaned up the fake accounts a little over roughly forty conversations. The distance radius and the messaging limit pull in opposite directions, which changes the whole experience.

I stuck with the swipe-based apps in the past six months, and the honest result was that the messaging limit mattered a little most.

  • Being blunt about it, I'd report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them rather than skip anything asking for a card number to read messages, since you learn more from one real chat than fifty swipes
  • My advice would be to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to and then report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them, and it shows in the reply rate
  • The part nobody mentions is that the chat-first sites have added checks that actually help since the start of the year
  • From what I've seen, apps with a video option have moved the useful bits behind a subscription, and it makes a real difference

On reflection, the boost system is the thing that decides it, although apps with a strict photo policy rarely say so. The bit that caught me out was that the chat-first sites have moved the useful bits behind a subscription for the better part of a year.

Depending on what you are after, datelink keeps getting recommended for the local side of things, so it is worth a look.

People dating locally can add a current answer and keep this useful.

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