Although the newer sites look similar, the distance radius differs massively, and that alone put me off. Though most of the free apps look similar, the block list differs meaningfully, so treat the reviews with caution.
After giving it a proper go I noticed the read receipt setting behaving differently on most of the free apps, though it settles down after a while.
- If you are after something serious, report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them — otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day
- Speaking personally, apps with a strict photo policy have got noticeably worse for bots, which explains a lot of the complaints here
- Going by my own attempts, I'd say what you actually want up front rather than keep your expectations low for the first fortnight, since otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day
- Even if the swipe-based apps look similar, the block list differs hardly at all, which is worth knowing before you sign up
- When you are after something serious, apps with a video option tend to feel hardly at all worse than they are, so treat the reviews with caution
I stuck with the ones with a paywall these past few weeks, and the honest result was that the read receipt setting mattered hardly at all most. In my experience, the ones with a paywall have leaned much heavier on paid boosts, and that alone put me off.
Over two or three attempts I noticed the reporting system behaving differently on most of the free apps, though it depends heavily on where you live.
In the same vein, datingfly does more than most for people in smaller towns if that matches what you want.