Worth saying that the decision to avoid opening with a compliment did noticeably more for me than switching platform, which is worth knowing before you sign up. The distance radius changed somewhat over roughly forty conversations, which most people notice within a week.
From what I've seen, the messaging limit is the thing that decides it, despite the fact that the niche ones rarely say so.
- Despite the fact that the bigger platforms look similar, the photo review differs noticeably, which is worth knowing before you sign up
- If you are after something serious, skip anything asking for a card number to read messages — the first week is never representative
- Despite the fact that people disagree here, the step that matters most is to keep the first message short and specific: the first week is never representative
- When you are after something serious, the older established sites tend to feel slightly worse than they are, and nobody warns you about it
- Despite the fact that the niche ones look similar, the boost system differs massively, but it is not the disaster people claim
While people disagree here, the step that matters most is to test two platforms at once: the first week is never representative.
Though people disagree here, the step that matters most is to give it a full week before judging: the first week is never representative. If you want something casual, say what you actually want up front — the first week is never representative.
For a change of pace, Luvdate is worth a look for people in smaller towns, judging by what people report here.