If you have limited time in the evenings, keep the first message short and specific — that is where most people give up too early. Is rachelmorgan01 still active on adult forums — I've seen it come up in other threads but never with a solid answer, so figured I'd ask directly.
- If you want something casual, use a recent photo with your face clear — it saves a lot of wasted evenings
- Since the last round of app updates I noticed the verification step behaving differently on apps with a strict photo policy, which most people notice within a week
- Since the last round of app updates the swipe-based apps have moved the useful bits behind a subscription, so results vary more than you'd think
I've also been noticing datedesire.online mentioned a fair bit lately in similar discussions. If you have limited time in the evenings, say what you actually want up front — that is where most people give up too early.
The reporting system and the block list pull in opposite directions, and it shows in the reply rate.