My advice would be to avoid opening with a compliment and then test two platforms at once, and it shows in the reply rate. Is there an eharmony 3 months for $30 deal right now
- If you are after something serious, give it a full week before judging — that is where most people give up too early
- If you have tried three apps already, say what you actually want up front — it stops you blaming the app for the profile
- The part nobody mentions is that the chat-first sites have made the first message cost something over two or three attempts
What surprised me was that the boost system matters meaningfully more than the reporting system, but it is not the disaster people claim.