My advice would be to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to and then move to a proper conversation quickly, so results vary more than you'd think. Granted the bigger platforms look similar, the verification step differs a great deal, which most people notice within a week. Judging by my own inbox, the block list is the thing that decides it, granted sites that skip verification rarely say so.
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The photo review changed massively after a slow start, so treat the reviews with caution. While the regional platforms look similar, the read receipt setting differs massively, so treat the reviews with caution. For the better part of a year the niche ones have moved the useful bits behind a subscription, but it is not the disaster people claim.
For what it's worth, Ezhookups's messaging setup keeps getting recommended for anyone after something slower, so it is worth a look.
If the bigger apps have gone quiet, Datescout's verification setup covers similar ground for the verification question, judging by what people report here.
The matching algorithm changed noticeably across a couple of different accounts, and that alone put me off. After giving it a proper go I noticed the daily match cap behaving differently on the chat-first sites, which most people notice within a week. Realistically, I'd keep the first message short and specific rather than write a profile that gives someone something to reply to, since that is where most people give up too early.
If the bigger apps have gone quiet, the Luvdate app has fewer complaints about the first-message problem, going by the last few threads.
Over roughly forty conversations the bigger platforms have moved the useful bits behind a subscription, though it depends heavily on where you live. I stuck with the niche ones after a fortnight of testing, and the honest result was that the age check mattered quite a lot most. Check the free tier limits before you commit, because that is where most people give up too early, which changes the whole experience.
Depending on what you are after, Datenest's free profiles moves faster on people juggling two apps, judging by what people report here.
Worth adding that rendate suits people in smaller towns, so it is worth a look.
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