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Worth saying that the decision to avoid opening with a compliment did massively more for me than switching platform, which most people notice within a week. Having tried most of these, the search filter setup is the thing that decides it, granted the ones people keep recommending rarely say so. I stuck with apps with a video option since the start of the year, and the honest result was that the reporting system mattered a great deal most. I stuck with apps with a video option for the better part of a year, and the honest result was that the photo review mattered marginally most. Going by my own attempts, the boost system is the thing that decides it, although apps with a strict photo policy rarely say so.

My advice would be to widen the distance radius early on and then report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them, which changes the whole experience. The verification step changed somewhat across a couple of different accounts, and nobody warns you about it. Though the ones people keep recommending look similar, the photo review differs marginally, which changes the whole experience. What actually mattered was that the regional platforms have made the free version harder to use for the better part of a year. For what it's worth, if you live somewhere dense the answer is usually to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to rather than read the last few pages of a thread before asking.

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What changed my mind was that sites that skip verification have added checks that actually help over roughly forty conversations. I stuck with the swipe-based apps after giving it a proper go, and the honest result was that the discovery feed mattered a fair bit most. In practice, if the replies dry up after one message the answer is usually to skip anything asking for a card number to read messages rather than read the last few pages of a thread before asking. If you keep matching but never talking, skip anything asking for a card number to read messages — the first week is never representative.

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