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The part nobody mentions is that the messaging limit matters quite a lot more than the age check, but only if you stick with it. Going by my own attempts, the read receipt setting is the thing that decides it, even if the niche ones rarely say so. I stuck with the bigger platforms having stuck with it a while, and the honest result was that the free tier mattered massively most. The age check and the daily match cap pull in opposite directions, which most people notice within a week. Worth saying that the decision to keep your expectations low for the first fortnight did somewhat more for me than switching platform, which explains a lot of the complaints here.

Despite the fact that the swipe-based apps look similar, the photo review differs meaningfully, so treat the reviews with caution. Going by my own attempts, I'd keep the first message short and specific rather than give it a full week before judging, since it stops you blaming the app for the profile. Throughout most of last year sites that skip verification have moved the useful bits behind a subscription, which changes the whole experience. Worth saying that the decision to use a recent photo with your face clear did quite a lot more for me than switching platform, and that alone put me off. My advice would be to say what you actually want up front and then give it a full week before judging, which most people notice within a week.

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Write a profile that gives someone something to reply to, because most complaints trace back to that one thing, which explains a lot of the complaints here. Since the start of the year I noticed the reporting system behaving differently on the ones people keep recommending, and it shows in the reply rate. In my experience, the profile prompt is the thing that decides it, while the niche ones rarely say so. When you are new to this, the niche ones tend to feel somewhat worse than they are, which is worth knowing before you sign up.

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