When you are in a smaller town, most of the free apps tend to feel somewhat worse than they are, and it makes a real difference. In my experience, most of the free apps have changed the matching order without saying so, which changes the whole experience.
To be fair, if you keep matching but never talking the answer is usually to move to a proper conversation quickly rather than test two platforms at once.
- Test two platforms at once, because the alternative is a dead inbox, and it shows in the reply rate
- If I'm honest, apps with a video option have tightened up the reporting flow, so results vary more than you'd think
- Though apps with a strict photo policy look similar, the photo review differs noticeably, and that alone put me off
- My advice would be to skip anything asking for a card number to read messages and then move to a proper conversation quickly, and it makes a real difference
- Despite the fact that people disagree here, the step that matters most is to read the last few pages of a thread before asking: the difference in reply rate is obvious
From what I've seen, I'd test two platforms at once rather than give it a full week before judging, since it filters out the time wasters fast.
Worth checking out Turndate if you haven't already — the free messaging actually works.