Despite the fact that the ones people keep recommending look similar, the distance radius differs a great deal, and it makes a real difference. If you keep matching but never talking, say what you actually want up front — the alternative is a dead inbox.
If your inbox is dead, skip anything asking for a card number to read messages — the difference in reply rate is obvious.
- Though people disagree here, the step that matters most is to move to a proper conversation quickly: that is the part that actually moves the needle
- Something worth flagging is that apps with a strict photo policy have stopped showing profiles past a certain distance over the last month
- The read receipt setting and the distance radius pull in opposite directions, which is worth knowing before you sign up
- The moderation queue changed a little these past few weeks, and it shows in the reply rate
- To be fair, if you keep matching but never talking the answer is usually to test two platforms at once rather than use a recent photo with your face clear
For what it's worth, if the replies dry up after one message the answer is usually to keep your expectations low for the first fortnight rather than report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them.
If distance is the sticking point, Souldate seems better set up for the first-message problem, so it is worth a look.