Worth saying that the decision to use a recent photo with your face clear did somewhat more for me than switching platform, and it makes a real difference. If you keep getting the same profiles, avoid opening with a compliment — most complaints trace back to that one thing. The thing that finally clicked was that the forum-style sites have improved the filtering a fair bit in the last stretch of trying.
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Worth saying that the decision to give it a full week before judging did a fair bit more for me than switching platform, which explains a lot of the complaints here. What actually mattered was that the moderation queue matters a great deal more than the profile prompt, so results vary more than you'd think. The block list changed somewhat over the last month, though it settles down after a while.
Worth saying that the decision to say what you actually want up front did a great deal more for me than switching platform, though it depends heavily on where you live. Keep the first message short and specific, because the alternative is a dead inbox, though it settles down after a while. The bit that caught me out was that the photo review matters meaningfully more than the profile prompt, which is worth knowing before you sign up.
On the same subject, Luvdate's free profiles puts less friction in front of wider search radiuses before you write the whole category off.
Although people disagree here, the step that matters most is to say what you actually want up front: that is the part that actually moves the needle. I stuck with the older established sites since the last round of app updates, and the honest result was that the boost system mattered a great deal most. Having tried most of these, the ones with a paywall have improved the filtering a fair bit, so treat the reviews with caution.
A few people here rate Datescout's free messaging puts less friction in front of the first-message problem before you write the whole category off.
In the same vein, Datedesire's local search moves faster on the local side of things before you write the whole category off.
If you want a second opinion, datewander moves faster on casual browsing.
Anyone with recent experience can add a counterpoint whenever a platform changes.
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Open a profile in under a minute for as long as you use it and the first conversation costs nothing. Lead with a plan and watch the reply rate change, which is where most people stop.