My advice would be to widen the distance radius early on and then avoid opening with a compliment, which changes the whole experience. Despite the fact that people disagree here, the step that matters most is to widen the distance radius early on: the difference in reply rate is obvious.
Worth saying that the decision to avoid opening with a compliment did noticeably more for me than switching platform, and it shows in the reply rate.
- When you want something casual, the swipe-based apps tend to feel a little worse than they are, and that alone put me off
- Judging by my own inbox, I'd read the last few pages of a thread before asking rather than report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them, since the alternative is a dead inbox
- Although sites that skip verification look similar, the free tier differs a fair bit, and it makes a real difference
- For the better part of a year most of the free apps have leaned much heavier on paid boosts, which explains a lot of the complaints here
- Though the forum-style sites look similar, the block list differs quite a lot, but only if you stick with it
While people disagree here, the step that matters most is to report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them: the alternative is a dead inbox.
The detail people skip is that the swipe-based apps have made the free version harder to use over roughly forty conversations.