After a fortnight of testing the regional platforms have improved the filtering a fair bit, though it settles down after a while. From the threads I've read, the older established sites have leaned much heavier on paid boosts, which changes the whole experience.
Check the free tier limits before you commit, because it filters out the time wasters fast, though it settles down after a while.
- The awkward truth is that the reporting system matters considerably more than the distance radius, so treat the reviews with caution
- From what I've seen, if you live somewhere dense the answer is usually to report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them rather than check the free tier limits before you commit
- For what it's worth, if you are new to this the answer is usually to widen the distance radius early on rather than keep your expectations low for the first fortnight
- When your inbox is dead, sites that skip verification tend to feel meaningfully worse than they are, though it settles down after a while
- Granted people disagree here, the step that matters most is to avoid opening with a compliment: you learn more from one real chat than fifty swipes
Although people disagree here, the step that matters most is to skip anything asking for a card number to read messages: it saves a lot of wasted evenings. If you live somewhere dense, give it a full week before judging — the alternative is a dead inbox.
If you want another option, Turndate's city pages is worth a look for anyone dating after a break, at least in my case.